My wheel of Life

 My wheel of life

Eight part of life. 

It is covered health, money, career, social, family, personal, hobbies, and spirituality

You put mark up to ten and list out mark wise. 

Now, you knew about your more and less importance parts in life.

Try to equal importance in six parts in life.

It is help to be maintaining your life with balanced from stress and strain. 

Every six month it may be change by your life experiences.

Again try to modify your importance to balance the life wheel run smoothly. 

Life is like as a wheel. 

Run smoothly.

First Impression

 First impression

Yours smile 😊

Yours appearance

Yours posture

Yours tone

Yours style of speech delivery 

Yours friendly approach 

Yours respectful communication 

Yours interest.

Delayer

 Delayer

Are you as a delayer? 

Be ready to develop your skill.

Be ready to learn new skill to be update.

Be confidence. Confidence comes from everyday practices. 

Come out from your fear about winning.

Success or failure is two side of a coin.

Notice our sports stars in any game.

Ready to be face the reality.

You come out from self-doubt and fear if feelings.

Practice:

Do anything useful to you and others.

Divide your work many parts. To be finished small part of work every day. 

Appreciate yourself after every small success or completion.

The whole world is his who acts

At the right time and place. Thirukkural - 484

Even the world can be conquered, if one acts

at the right time and right place.

Satisfy to all?

Satisfy to all? 

It is not easy to satisfy all.

It is impossible at all time in life, society and work.

Practice says to NO.

You are not a joker to be creating pleasure movement. 

Be assertive not aggressive. 

Assertive means say to no whenever you do not work with your limit.

Say to NO with assertive and smile.

If you have fear to say “NO”, you have a strong stress related health problem.  

Be real. Know your skill and your tolerance. 

Feel free with communicate assertive.

Comfortable Zone

Comfortable Zone

Come out from your comfortable zone

Why?  

It is boring. 

Routinely work. 

Are you like as robot? 

It is a wrong approach. 

Ready take risk. 

Development is an ongoing process. 

Ready and prepare to next development steps.

Then 

Change your activities better. 

Be Active.

Be energetic.

Find out new ways to become more development. 

Now 

You get more power and new vision.

 

Time management

 Time management 

Try to something valuable for development. 

Sometimes you faced starting trouble to do new one.

Follow one technique:

15-15-15 minutes process. 

Everyday spend only 15 minutes for your new process. 

List out:

Already completed 

To do list 

Time allots

When? 

Where? 

Which? 

 Note:

 Procrastination is leads to dullness.

A well-timed action is the sure cord

That binds the fortune indeed. Thriukkural-482

A timely action is a cord 

that holds unstable wealth together forever.

Improve your negotiation skill

Improve your negotiation skill

Already you are a negotiator.

From your childhood you tried to compromise with your parents.

Try to compromise others for business.

Some better ways...

Determine:

What do you want?

What does your customer or opposition want?

Know your points, facts and evidence

Be ready to walk away without any agreement

Do:

Try to a win-win agreement. (Everyone feels they have won)

Try to understand what others saying. (Real meaning)

Set the guidelines to control the negotiation.

Don't:

You do not become emotional. (Focus to the problem)

Be:

Be self-confidence

Help to build self-confidence.

Gain or loss depends on one's words

So guard against slip in words (Thirukkural-642)

Words can bring either gain or ruin. 

So, we must guard against a slip of the tongue