Become a Leader

 Become a Leader

Be aware

Be kind 

Be empathy

Be confidence

Be ready to guide 

Be with team 

Be with network

Be with goals

Be ready to change.

 

Be Bold

Be Bold

Be courage under any situation.

Life is full of competitions.

"Bold is a style of life"

So always be prepared.

Also...

Be ready to take risks.

Walking towards your goals.

Tell your opinion.

Keep your priorities.

Face your fear.

"Boldness has power in it"

Think first and then venture on an act

To venture and then think is a fault.-Thirukkural 467

It is good to think first and then act: it wrong to act first and then think.

Advertising yourself

Advertising yourself

Advertising or Marketing starts from communicate effectively.

Publicity yourself.

Remember to others "what about you".

Seeking opportunity from others.

Tell your plan and activities to others.

Build network through create account: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, YouTube etc.,

Build a social media followers.

Make a website. Blogging with your website.

Be ready to serve.

Choose your customer.

Be an expert.

Be humble

 Be humble

If you have more power or skills, you will be humble.

 

Why?

 Humble is more important than skills.

 In my experience humility is important for human progress, 

 If you diligent you will be looking for opportunities.

 For example, opportunities for actors from humility.

 Lot of help and support from others.

 At the same time, you have to work hard.

 You will develop of opportunities.

Humility is surely a great virtue for one and all

To the wealthy it is another than a mount. Thirukkural-124

Humility is certainly good for all. 

It is an added grace to the wealthy.

Keep it simple

 Keep it simple

Be simple

Use enough space

Use enough furniture, illumination and sound

Use few words 

Be approach to everyone

Be clear to give solution

Good conduct ever brings great honour

Bad conduct ends in great dishonour. Thirukkural-137

Compare yourself

Compare yourself 

Are you maintained your diary?

Your height

Your weight

Also 

Compare your present skill, knowledge, attitude with previous level

Are you improved or to be improved?

Write down to be learn new skill to attain your goals.

Lean forward to learn new skill and language.

A language is equal to a humane being.

Develop the mother tongue.

Develop the  regional language. 

Develop the world language English. 

Develop the computer languages also.

Understand about the uses of languages. 

Once every six months compare yourself. 

What skill do you need?  You ready to go to the next level like as an athlete.

Break your records.

Be awake

Be awake

Get up early in every morning

Feel...

Natural  air...  cool air... in open place. 

Be feel the movement of the air.

Listen sound of birds in the early morning. 

Listen chirping of the birds.

Notice the squirrels running through the tree and on the trap.

Watch the butterflies fly.

Watch the sun rises.

You will get power from it.

Speak within yourself to achieve your goals. 

What do you want ? Energy,  power,  wealth or health etc.,  

Nature has innumerable sources.

Faith.

Faith

Faith

Nature will give you.

Giving Positive feedback

Giving  Positive feedback 

It is an art. 

Don't be afraid to give feedback. Be polite. 

Praise in front of others.

To be keep trying

To be appreciated all good works

To be change from wrong behavior 

To behave good behaviors

To be more learn

To be more growth and development 

To be motivate colleagues 

Motivate to become skill and use skill

To be friendly 

To be open minded communication 

Some words: 

I like it, I love it, Great stuff, that’s correct

Awesome, Excellent, Brilliant, Fantastic, Magnificent, Marvelous, Outstanding.

 

Find happiness

 Find happiness

Whenever you are

Whatever you are 

Harvest happiness. 

Happiness gives energy, and motivation. 

It helps to work with team. 

So 

 

Learn how to be happy.

Do your duty sincerely and continuously you will be happy. 

Take happy from surrounding and also give happy to your surroundings. 

Give happy. Be happy. 

 

Every day is a new day

More ways to find happiness 

Now... you... find…

Be free Be happy.

Attention control

 Attention control 

We knew about attention is most important. 

But... Why do you want to control the attention? 

You noticed any wild horse and house breeding horse.

What is the main difference? 

One is uncontrolled other one is controlled by belts and eye shield to ride.

Without eye shield too difficult to control the horse. 

Why? Attention changes focus in the journey.

It can cause an accident. Your focus should be towards the goal.

Your vision and mission can be achieved through focus.

Is to divert your attention on social media? (WhatsApp, YouTube, Twitter, etc.,)

You try to save your time, energy and health (body and mind) with attention control.

So, control your five senses to be developed yourself present and future. 

Seeing, hearing, smelling, feeling and tasting. 

Look at the good ones

Listen to the good ones

Eat the good ones

Breathe good ones

Feel the good ones.

Emotional Intelligence

Emotional intelligence 

Are you upset very soon? 

When you are failure or reject? 

Emotional intelligence is ability to recognize your mood and behaviour.

Practice:

Improve your concentration 

Improve your attention. 

Be:

Confidence 

Responsibility 

Self-control 

Resilience

Dedication 

Tolerance 

Flexibility 

Sense of purpose

Dealing with stress. 

Attitude

 Attitude 

You can develop yourself by changing right attitude. 

Be positive mental attitude. 

Be polite.

Be humble. 

Be truthful. 

Be tolerance. 

Be kindness. 

Be humour.

Be simple.

Be brave.

Be honest.

Be open minded.

Be friendly. 

Be awareness. 

Be cleanliness.  

Then...

You should be matured to face any situation in your life.

Family Systems

 Family Systems 

Allot time to engage with your family members. 

Always connect with your family members by mobile. 

Give more attention to everyone growth and development.

Everyone participates to development of the family.

Whenever need join with the family. 

Everyone know about family members it means also what they are doing now?  

We care about family member's time schedule. 

Eat together at least one time per day. Cooking is important at house to health and affection.

Everyday evening before go to bed speak your family members if you are in out station.

Be support to elders in old age.

Be feel joy with family.  It will reduce your all side of stress. 

Maintain joined bank accounts.

Every month prepare budget. 

Plan to family member's education, career, build new house or modify, marriage, etc., 

Plan to medical expenses by health insurance and life insurance. 

Plan to peace of mind. 

Positive self-talk

 

Everyday tell you…

I am fine

I can do it

I will do it

I have a goal

I will attain the goal 

I am useful 

Uses:

It will give more confidence to you.

It will help to self-motivation. 

It is secrets of success.

Whenever you upset again speak yourself.

Self-talk will boost you. 

Develop human network

Develop human network

 

Human network is always important to be fulfill your and other’s needs. 

Maintain a diary digitally or manually. 

Friend’s names and contact numbers and their skill area, working division etc.

Relative’s detail. 

Maintenance details: Housekeeping, two-wheeler and four-wheeler mechanics, service dealers, insurance agent etc., 

Your skill development:  

Books details, publication details, training institute details, teacher and trainers’ details. 

Purchase network:

Supplier detail

People network: contractor’s detail.

Marketing network: 

Dealer’s detail

Agent’s detail

Like as family marriage network.

Need many human networks to complete the marriage without tensions. 

If you to become an entrepreneur, you will be developed human network. 

This network help to finish any work anywhere without delayed.

Collect big data for your development. 

Now a day’s big data is a network tool.

My wheel of Life

 My wheel of life

Eight part of life. 

It is covered health, money, career, social, family, personal, hobbies, and spirituality

You put mark up to ten and list out mark wise. 

Now, you knew about your more and less importance parts in life.

Try to equal importance in six parts in life.

It is help to be maintaining your life with balanced from stress and strain. 

Every six month it may be change by your life experiences.

Again try to modify your importance to balance the life wheel run smoothly. 

Life is like as a wheel. 

Run smoothly.

First Impression

 First impression

Yours smile 😊

Yours appearance

Yours posture

Yours tone

Yours style of speech delivery 

Yours friendly approach 

Yours respectful communication 

Yours interest.

Delayer

 Delayer

Are you as a delayer? 

Be ready to develop your skill.

Be ready to learn new skill to be update.

Be confidence. Confidence comes from everyday practices. 

Come out from your fear about winning.

Success or failure is two side of a coin.

Notice our sports stars in any game.

Ready to be face the reality.

You come out from self-doubt and fear if feelings.

Practice:

Do anything useful to you and others.

Divide your work many parts. To be finished small part of work every day. 

Appreciate yourself after every small success or completion.

The whole world is his who acts

At the right time and place. Thirukkural - 484

Even the world can be conquered, if one acts

at the right time and right place.

Satisfy to all?

Satisfy to all? 

It is not easy to satisfy all.

It is impossible at all time in life, society and work.

Practice says to NO.

You are not a joker to be creating pleasure movement. 

Be assertive not aggressive. 

Assertive means say to no whenever you do not work with your limit.

Say to NO with assertive and smile.

If you have fear to say “NO”, you have a strong stress related health problem.  

Be real. Know your skill and your tolerance. 

Feel free with communicate assertive.

Comfortable Zone

Comfortable Zone

Come out from your comfortable zone

Why?  

It is boring. 

Routinely work. 

Are you like as robot? 

It is a wrong approach. 

Ready take risk. 

Development is an ongoing process. 

Ready and prepare to next development steps.

Then 

Change your activities better. 

Be Active.

Be energetic.

Find out new ways to become more development. 

Now 

You get more power and new vision.

 

Time management

 Time management 

Try to something valuable for development. 

Sometimes you faced starting trouble to do new one.

Follow one technique:

15-15-15 minutes process. 

Everyday spend only 15 minutes for your new process. 

List out:

Already completed 

To do list 

Time allots

When? 

Where? 

Which? 

 Note:

 Procrastination is leads to dullness.

A well-timed action is the sure cord

That binds the fortune indeed. Thriukkural-482

A timely action is a cord 

that holds unstable wealth together forever.

Improve your negotiation skill

Improve your negotiation skill

Already you are a negotiator.

From your childhood you tried to compromise with your parents.

Try to compromise others for business.

Some better ways...

Determine:

What do you want?

What does your customer or opposition want?

Know your points, facts and evidence

Be ready to walk away without any agreement

Do:

Try to a win-win agreement. (Everyone feels they have won)

Try to understand what others saying. (Real meaning)

Set the guidelines to control the negotiation.

Don't:

You do not become emotional. (Focus to the problem)

Be:

Be self-confidence

Help to build self-confidence.

Gain or loss depends on one's words

So guard against slip in words (Thirukkural-642)

Words can bring either gain or ruin. 

So, we must guard against a slip of the tongue